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Jan
31

Overcoming Your Fears – Sermon Notes

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OVERCOMING YOUR FEARS
By Eddie Lawrence
 
INTRODUCTION: One summer night during a severe thunderstorm a mother was tucking her small son into bed. She was about to turn the light off when he asked in a trembling voice, "Mommy, will you stay with me all night?" Smiling, the mother gave him a warm, reassuring hug and said tenderly, "I can't dear. I have to sleep in Daddy's room." A long silence followed. At last it was broken by a shaky voice saying, "The big sissy!" – Source Unknown.

TRANSITION: Well, we all know about facing fear don’t we?


If you study through the Scripture you will find that before there was a breakthrough into the promise of God there was often a battle of fear.

Remember the children of Israel after they had seen so many miracles of God, they failed to enter into the promise land because of an unbelief that was rooted in the fear of the enemy.

It is so today that between you and living in the promised place there is a battle with fear.

The first battle is not with the enemies in the land, but with the fears within you.

TEXT: 2 Timothy 1:6 Therefore I remind you to stir up the gift of God which is in you through the laying on of my hands. 7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

1. FEAR IS CALLED A SPIRIT  IN THIS PASSAGE
 
From this we can conclude at least two things:

A. It is a force that operates in the unseen realm.

-Yes there is an intimidating force that wants to back us down from standing up for our faith.

-There is a healthy fear we should have. We should fear to stand in the middle of the freeway. This keeps us safe. But the fear spoken of here is the fear that makes cowards of us. It paralyzes us and causes us not to take the steps of faith we need to take to see the promises of God fulfilled in our lives.

ILLUS- Did you know thatPresident and Mrs. Benjamin Harrison were so intimidated by the newfangled electricity installed in the White House they didn't dare touch the switches. If there were no servants around to turn off the lights when the Harrisons went to bed, they slept with them on. – Jane Goodsell, Not a Good Word About Anybody, Ballantine.



B. It is a demonic force because we are told it is not from God.
-Paul refers to a spirit of fear in Romans 8 as well. He says it is a spirit of bondage.

-John tells us in 1 John 4 that this fear causes “torment”. The word carries the root meaning of punishment. When this spirit of fear is working, we are constantly being hammered and punished in our mind.

-It stands against the freedom that we are to live in as believers in Christ.


2. FEAR STANDS OPPOSED TO THREE GIFTS THAT GOD DOES GIVE YOU

-Notice that Paul told Timothy that the timidity and fear he struggled with was not given to him by God, but he does mention three things that do come from God to his children.

Notice the:

A. The Gift Of Power

-We have the promise of power that come to us through the Holy Spirit.

Acts 1:8 But you shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be witnesses to Mein Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.”

-The Spirit of fear will move against you to shut down the flow of power that is available through the Holy Spirit.

B. The Gift Of Love

-We have received God’s love. His love is the Divine motive for our salvation in the first place (John 3:16).

-His agape love never fails.

-So it stands to reason that the Spirit of fear would work to shut down the flow and understanding of God’s love. When you doubt God’s love for you, you will stumble in fear. You end up playing the daisy game with your faith–“He loves me…He loves me not!”

C. The Gift Of A Sound Mind

-Fear does its work against the mind. The enemy will assail you with fear filled thoughts. He will use intimidation, condemnation, and control to hammer you hard.

-Fear will keep you from aligning your thoughts with the promises of God.

-Fear, control, unbelief, and doubt all hang out together. They are in league together to satisfy flesh and oppose God.


3. These Three Items Are Your Arsenal Against Fear

-Access God’s Power through humbling yourself under His mighty hand. Submit to the leadership of the Holy Spirit. You are promised as God’s child to be led by the Holy Spirit (Romans 8:14). Jesus taught us in John 14 that the Holy Spirit would guide us into all truth. Therefore, decide to follow the Holy Spirit instead of fear.

-Declare and remind yourself that you are loved by God. That He will never leave nor forsake you. That what He wants for you is always best. Being rooted in the love of God is your safe ground against fear. Listen to this verse:

1 John 4:17 Love has been perfected among us in this: that we may have boldness in the day of judgment; because as He is, so are we in this world. 18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love. 

-The love of God will move fear out of the way. Fear stands in the doorway between you and the faith you need to see the promises of God fulfilled. When you know God loves you, really loves you, then you are more likely to trust Him. And this faith is what gives you the victory. It all ties together.

-The sound mind means that your thoughts are now aligning with God’s Word. You are thinking like Jesus thinks because you have the mind of Christ. You are able to hide God’s Word in your heart and declare it out your mouth in faith. When you do this, the fear has to yield. You see yourself robed with Christ’s righteousness and power and nothing can stand against you. If God be for you, Who can stand against you. When you know He is for you, then your mind is impacted by this knowledge and you make the right choices.

-The enemy knows if he can confuse us about God’s love, he can fill us with his fear.

CONCLUSION: I ran across the following written years ago by Dr. E. Stanley Jones that sums it up. He tells us we were not made to be controlled by fear. Here is what he wrote:

I am inwardly fashioned for faith, not for fear. Fear is not my native land; faith is. I am so made that worry and anxiety are sand in the machinery of life; faith is the oil. I live better by faith and confidence than by fear, doubt and anxiety. In anxiety and worry, my being is gasping for breath–these are not my native air. But in faith and confidence, I breathe freely–these are my native air. A John Hopkins University doctor says, "We do not know why it is that worriers die sooner than the non-worriers, but that is a fact." But I, who am simple of mind, think I know; We are inwardly constructed in nerve and tissue, brain cell and soul, for faith and not for fear. God made us that way. To live by worry is to live against reality. -Dr. E. Stanley Jones.

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Apr
28

15 Ways to Behave More Christian

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15 Ways to Behave More Christian
by Eddie Lawrence
 
chrstianINTRODUCTION – It is much too easy to become swept into movements and lose sight of the bigger picture. At our weekly small group men’s meeting recently, eight of us guys sat at my dining room table as we do each Tuesday morning. The topic of discussion centered around how to be in the world but not of the world. The question was posed, “How do we stand firmly in love on an issue we really believe in?”
 
We all realized that it is easy for an issue to become political, religious, or social. When it does then it can quickly lead to mass prejudice, label making, and very unchristian in its demeanor.
 
Issues like immigration, homosexuality, prayer, marriage all are huge and important issues. Most believers have and should have strong beliefs on such topics. But….how should those beliefs be expressed? What behaviors should be avoided in expressing and standing for what we believe? How do we keep hatred for people separated from hatred of sin?
 
How to keep from becoming sinfully prejudiced in self-righteousness? As our group discussed this for over an hour, I jotted down a list of summary statements of what we covered. Following is a list of those statements. I think that are worthy of consideration if you want to stand on an issue in love. They answer the question of “How to we live Christian in an Unchristian world?”

1. Recognize Your Own Sinfulness.
-There may be sin you have not personally experienced but that does not mean you don’t have the capacity to commit that sin. It is our sinful nature that leads us to acts of sin. Apart from the grace of God, we are all equally lost and separated from God. It is “only by His Grace” that we can live above the strong downward pull of sin’s gravity.

2. Deal with People as Individual Persons, Not as Groups.
-It is both unfair and ungodly to view each individual as if they were personally responsible for all the rhetoric, behavior, and choices of an entire group. When we dismiss someone because they are “white” or “African American” or “Hispanic” we are refusing to see them as having personal value. This is prejudice in its very ugly form. Attitudes like, “They can’t be saved because they are ‘pentecostal” or “Methodist” or “Episcopalian” is very bigoted thinking. Each of us as individuals will stand before God.
 
3. Be Aware of Self-Righteousness.
-Thinking you are above being self-righteous may be evidence you are. Jesus dealt more severely with this attitude than any in Scripture. Our righteousness is God’s gift through Christ, to claim it as a result of our own efforts or abilities is to bring the greatest reproach upon Christ.
 
4. Be Sensitive to How the Holy Spirit Wants to Bear His Fruit Through You in Regard to Those Trapped in Sin.
-The Lord knows how to open the hearts of people and will give you the grace to demonstrate Christ’s love and grace to them.
 
 
5. Be Committed to Love (Gal. 5:6).
-If it violates love, it violates God. God is love. Faith is to be expressed and operated through love.
 
6. Be Ready to Give An Answer of the Hope Within You.
-Instead of preparing an argument, prepare to present hope. Pride can pull you into a verbal barrage. Allow the Holy Spirit to use the powerful weapons of wisdom, faith, hope, and love to lead others to God’s throne of grace. A battle won by intellect may sound good to the natural ear, but a battle diffused by love and leaving an opponent with that nagging feeling that he has been somehow loved into silence will do more good.
 
7. Stand Righteously Against Tactics That Betray the Heart of Christ in Dealing with Others.
-The weapons of warfare are not carnal. Too often, especially in the fray of battle, we resort to tactics that are rooted in manipulation, mud-slinging, and corrupt communication. This means we attempt to win a cause for Christ in a spirit opposite Christ.

8. Intercede for Those Who Stand Against You.
-Praying for others has multiple benefits that are powerful. It softens your heart to pray for them. It softens their hearts when you pray for them. It brings Heaven to bear upon their lives. It creates an atmosphere that causes the Devil problems in doing what he wants to do.
 
9. Seek Wisdom and Understanding from the Scripture to Learn the Ways of God. (Is. 55)
-Our ways and God’s are different. Don’t assume. Seek God’s way in every situation (Prov. 3:5-6)
 
10. Handle People with Grace.
-This is how God has chosen to deal with us. Pass it on!
 
11. Speak with Grace.
-This means the seed you sow through your words will have the opportunity to bring forth the fruits of grace. This is much better than the seed sown when we speak from the flesh. One is life and the other is death.
 
12. Learn to Discern Hatred in Your Own Heart.
-Does the Holy Spirit work through hatred? No! His fruit is spelled out clearly in Gal. 5:22. Don’t confuse your hatred from someone with righteous anger. Righteous anger rejoices in the prospect of someone drawing near to God. Hatred rejoices in seeing judgment fall upon someone. Remember what Jesus told his disciples when they wanted to call fire down from Heaven upon the Samaritans? “You know not what spirit you are of.”
 
13. Remember that Religion Has An Ugly Deathly Side to It.
-More ungodly acts against people have been done in the name of religion than any other factor. History bears this out. It is easy to tag something about “God” onto whatever crusade is firing up.
 
14. Rely on the Holy Spirit to Guide You.
-Jesus only did what He saw the Father doing. He promised the Holy Spirit would give you what you needed when you needed it. When in doubt, pray it out!
 
15. Avoid Being Labeled and Being a Label Maker.
-Be a love maker not a label maker. Don’t allow people to identify you with a certain tag. This makes it easier for them to pass a quick judgment on you. Avoid the temptation to label others. This will blind you to what you need to know about them and see in them. Ask God to help you see people the way He does. It will always be redemptive in its view.

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Jan
14

You Love God?

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Do You Love God?

by Eddie Lawrence

If you want to know if you love God, there are several biblical tests that can be applied. Following is one of them found in 1 John 4. Take the test and see you you do?

1 John 4:20-21 “If anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother.”

1. Hatred in the Heart Nullifies Loving Words Out the Mouth
“If anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is a liar."

-We must ask the Holy Spirit to help us discern the hatred areas of our hearts. We can become self-deceived about the hatred in our hearts. We do this by convincing ourselves we are justified in hating or by thinking we say we ‘love someone or forgive them" will override the animosity we seethe with internally.
-God’s Word says we are liars when we do this.
-We are acting with Satan’s agenda when we do this. He is the father of lies.

2. Brotherly Relationships Reveal the Reality of Heavenly Relationships
"For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen."

-Our love for God is truly gauged by our love for our brothers.

Questions to gauge whether or not there is hatred in the heart toward a brother:

-Are you acting out toward him in hostility?
-Do you secretly plot ways to hurt or discredit him before others?
-Do you engage in accusation toward him?
-Do you say you love him while at the same time your heart despises him?
-Do you think about him continuously with mal-intent in mind?
-What happens in your physical body when you think of him?
-Would you rejoice if bad things happened to him?
-Would you rejoice if good things happened to him?
-Are you anticipating judgment falling upon him because you know God will avenge you?

3. A True Love for God cannot Exist with a true Hatred toward a Brother.
"And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother.”

-God’s measurement of vertical love toward Him is seen through the measure of horizontal love toward others.
-The validity of our love is in question when we are not loving a brother.
 

Practical considerations:

-Attempt to reconcile according to Matthew 18. If all attempts have ended in a stall, then keep an open heart and keep praying for God to bless your brother with His grace and mercy. Believe the Lord will open the door for reconciliation to occur. Paul reminds us to live at peace with all men as much as lies within us.
-Be honest about the sin in your own heart. Deal with it. Be humble and confess it to God and those biblically appropriate.
-Seek counsel from others who are outside the "drama" of the personalities involved.
-Refuse to be drawn into the fleshly battle. This is where the enemy is able to do his work.
-Submit to your spiritual authorities and follow their bible based guidance.
-Realize the cross is about forgiving and releasing offenses.
-Remember repentance brings forgiveness to our hearts.

Conclusion: The antidote for hatred is forgiveness, mercy, and love which are all grace gifts God will give us as we need them.

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by Mikki Lawrence

 …love one another fervently with a pure heart.     1 Peter 1:22

Let brotherly love continue.  Hebrews 13:1

If God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.  1 John 4: 11

By this will all men know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.  John 13:35

The fruit of the Spirit is love… Galatians 5:22

Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:8

If love were always easy, then perhaps the Word wouldn’t give us so many admonitions about it. Over and over again we are told to love. Love God. Love one another. Love ourselves.

The war over love is really a war over our hearts. Many things can fill our hearts. Strife, hatred, anger, lust, greed, bitterness.  The Word teaches us that whatever is in our hearts will come forward in our words and in our actions.

Romans 5:5 says that the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit and then goes on to remind us that God demonstrated His love for us in that WHILE WE WERE STILL SINNERS, Christ died for us.

We can add fuel to the fire of love in our hearts by humbly reflecting on how Christ gave his all to show us God’s love for us. The realization that God loved us while we were completely lost in our sins, when as to yet, we had done nothing for him, yet His pure undeserved love poured out for us and gave Christ as a sacrifice because God so longed to have us, to be in relationship with us – that revelation can and should fan into flame the fire of love on our hearts.

Would you stop for a moment and think about how God gave His love for you?  Would you ask the Father to blow on the embers of your heart and fan into flame His love? Would you ask Him to show you who you can love better? Would you ask Him how you can love better?

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(by Eddie) Mikki’s devotional provides great seed for a sermon on love. Here is a suggested outline with the above in mind:

4 CHALLENGES OF LOVING LIKE GOD LOVES!

1. IT WON’T BE EASY

2. THE WAR OF LOVE IS WON IN THE HEART

3. LOVE KEEPS FLOWING EVEN WHEN IT’S NOT RECOGNIZED

4. LOVE IS GIVEN NEVER EARNED

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Oct
20

Jesus Loves Sinners — sermon

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The following sermon outline is from a sermon prepared by Pastor David O. Cofield. You may read his personal ministry blog here.

“Jesus Loves Sinners”

Luke 15: 1-2

Luke 15 starts as seemingly a way to introduce a new subject, “Then all the tax
collectors and the sinners drew near to Him to hear Him. 2And the Pharisees and
scribes complained, saying, “This Man receives sinners and eats with them.”
The Message says, “By this time a lot of men and women of doubtful reputation were
hanging around Jesus, listening intently. The Pharisees and religion scholars were not
pleased, not at all pleased. They growled, “He takes in sinners and eats meals with
them, treating them like old friends.”

The New Living Translation calls them “notorious sinners.”

Instead, this is not a new subject at all but a continuation of the entire purpose of the
writing of the gospel of Luke. Jesus loves sinners. He loves the outcasts, the downand-
outs. He loves the rejects.
Take a quick tour of this gospel and let us see this powerful impact of Jesus receiving
them. Most of what is listed here is found ONLY in Luke:

1. The author himself was a Gentile.
2. The book was dedicated to Theophilus, a Gentile.
3. The story begins with Elizabeth, a barren woman and the wife of a priest.
She must have been rejected by God and under His judgment because she
was a barren woman.
4. Then we read more about Mary in Luke than any other and find her
describing herself in 1:48 as a “lowly maidservant.”
5. Only in Luke do see Shepherds, the social outcasts and forbidden to enter
Temple worship, mentioned as hearing the good news of Jesus’ birth. No
wise men in Luke’s gospel.
6. Only in Luke 2 do we see Jesus astounding the scholars and teachers at the
age of 12.
7. Only in Luke do we see what type of people John drew to His teachings:
Luke 3 calls them tax collectors (vs. 12) and soldiers (vs. 14).
8. Only in Luke do we see the text for Jesus’ first message preached – Luke 4:
18-19 revealing that he was coming for the poor, brokenhearted, captives, the
blind, the oppressed and its time NOW for it to happen.
9. Only in Luke do we see Jesus’ raising the only son of a widow in Nain in
Luke 7.
10. Only in Luke do we see the woman who washed the feet of Jesus with her
tears and dried them with her hair described as a “sinner” (vs. 37) and pointed
out by the Pharisees that she was a sinner (vs. 39). A woman who was a
harlot in the presence of a man, let alone a prophet?
11. Only in Luke 8:2-3 do we see that many women provided for the needs of
Jesus.
12. Only in Luke do we learn of the Good Samaritan (chapter 10). A good
Samaritan – a contradiction of terms.
13. Only in Luke chapter 13 is there a woman who had a spirit of infirmity for 18
years healed on the Sabbath in the synagogue while he was teaching.
14. Only in Luke (chapter 14) is there a man with dropsy – swelling in his legs
and arms – was healed on the Sabbath in the house of one of the rulers of the
Pharisees.
15. Luke 14 – a great supper is made but the invited guests don’t come, so the
master gets angry ordering them to go and get the “poor, maimed, lame and
the blind” (vs. 21). The religious elite are not coming to the wedding.
16. Luke 15 is about a shepherd, a woman, and a man whose son lowered himself
to wanting to eat pig slop.
17. Only in Luke 16 do we see a man begging, filled with sores, eating crumbs
pictured like a dog that dies and goes to Heaven and the rich man dies and
goes to Hell.
18. Only in Luke 17: 16 do we see ten lepers healed with only one returning and
it says “He was a Samaritan.”
19. Only in Luke 18 do we see the story of Sunday worship with a Pharisee and
tax collector with the tax collector asking for mercy and being justified, not
the Pharisee.
20. Only in Luke do we have the story (chapter 19) of Zacchaeus being a tax
collector that Jesus goes home with and brings salvation.
21. Only in Luke (23: 39-43) do we learn of a repentant thief getting paradise
with Jesus on his day of death with Jesus.

Jesus loves sinners. He is a friend of sinners.
So, going back to Luke 15, let me make three statements of how Jesus feels toward
sinners:


1. You are of worth to him.

Shepherd is not permitted in Temple worship. Outcasts – outsiders.
But shepherds go after one lost sheep leaving 99 who don’t think they need any
repentance.
But only in the heart of a parent would you go seeking for one and not accept 99% as
good enough. Because love only in a parent’s heart is never diminished when divided.
Love knows the worth of one.

2. You are of value to him.

This is a woman. Every Jewish man prayed every day thanking God that they were
not “a Gentile, a slave or a woman.”
But she loses a coin, which was at least a day’s wages and might have been more. She
sweeps the house diligently until she finds it.
You are of great value to God. He does not want to waste a day of your life or see you
waste a day.

3. You are desired of Him.
The last two parables are all about the Father wanting a relationship with his sons.
There are two sons here but the teaching is the same: I will go to no limits to have a
relationship with my sons.

A. He will let sinful situations run their course until you come to
yourself and come into a relationship with Him.
He took 1/3 of all his father’s wealth, converted it to cash and wasted it with reckless
living, wild living. The elder son said it was with harlots. It got so bad that he desired
to eat the pigs’ food. But he came to himself, a right understanding of himself, his
ways and his father’s provisions. He prepares a speech and heads home.
The Father sees him coming and throwing away Oriental behavior, he runs to meet
him. This is the only time in the Bible we see the Father running. The father is so
eager to receive him that he won’t let him finish his speech. He:

a. Gets a robe. Not the one he wore previously, but one reserved for honored
guests.
b. Gets a ring. Symbol of authority. All the father has is now available to the
son.
c. Gets scandals. Servants or slaves never wore scandals. But he’s not a
servant, but fully accepted as a son.
d. Gets a fattened calf for a feast. Meat was normally not eaten at regular
meals, but this was a celebration.

B. He will confront sinful spirits in order for you to come to a
relationship with Him.
The elder son is a totally different story, but has the same underlying theme: The
father wants a relationship with him.
Here is the symbol of the religious elite. Why?

a. He had a self-righteous spirit. He looked down at disgust at his younger
brother for only he tells us that the younger brother spent his living with
harlots (vs. 30).
b. He was angry at the sight of joy and fun. Religious people cannot stand
somebody experiencing joy in the presence of Jesus.
c. He was work oriented. He recounts all that he has done for his father
thinking that was what the father wanted.
d. He was bitter and unforgiving. He would not come in and forgive his
brother. The meanest people in the world are religious people who are bitter
and unforgiving; yet keep right on doing their religious duties.

The sad story about the elder son was he had no relationship with his father to know
how heart broken the father was over the other son nor what the father really wanted
out of his elder son.

Unlike the younger son where the Father stayed on the porch until he saw his son
returning, with his elder son he goes off the porch and confronts him. All religious
spirits must be confronted.

In the confrontation is the appeal to the opponents of Jesus, the Pharisees and scribes –
the religious elite – that there is still time to be apart of His kingdom but you must
recognize you are a sinner and repent. The sad truth is that most religious people see
no reason they need to repent and won’t.

So what is the message for us today? Jesus loves sinners.

Romans 5:8 “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were
still sinners, Christ died for us.”

Once President Abraham Lincoln was asked how he was going to treat the rebellious
southerners when they had finally been defeated and had returned to the Union of the
United States. The questioner expected that Lincoln would take a dire vengeance, but
he answered, “I will treat them as if they had never been away.”
That’s the same with God.

 

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Jul
23

The Great Verse! — sermon on John 3:16

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If we were to take a poll among believers of the "greatest" verse in the Bible, it would probably be John 3:16. Even the world sees the verse displayed on banners at football games, billboards on the side of the interstate, quoted by sports stars, heralded by

John 3:16 16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.

1. The Great God
"For God"

2. The Great Love
"so loved the world"

3. The Great Gift
"that He gave"

4. The Great Son
His only begotten son"

5. The Great Offer
"that whosoever believes in Him"

6. The Great Escape
"should not perish"

7. The Great Future
"but have everlasting life."

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